Arg!!! Ok. So. I'm sorry but this will be a little weddingy. I finally spoke to my aunt yesterday and she agreed with me for the most part. Here's a break down:
My mom's need for a Catholic wedding: when my aunt heard I didn't want it she was like "it's your wedding and if you aren't comfortable" but she had assumed that Peter was Catholic. When I told her he wasn't and that his uncle was performing the ceremony she was completely on my side. She thinks my mom was very much in the wrong there. (Incidentally my aunt isn't Catholic and she and my mom bicker about religion quite a bit so she's actually probably relieved to have more people on her side)
Not having Daniel, my annoying brother, in the wedding party: She thinks that it's up to Peter to put the people closest to him on his side. I'm not taking his sister either. But she thinks he needs to be involved somehow. Which I agree with. That's why we want him to videotape for us. By the way, do either of you know where I can rent a video camera?
My mom's reluctance to do the father-daughter dance with me: She thinks my mom is a snob who will be worried what her friends will think. She's right, only I never saw it that way. She's very much into what people will think and to be honest if she ever said "what will people think" I'll tell her the only judgemental people will be the ones she invites.
Anyway, my aunt seemed happy for me and she liked the place I picked when I told her about it.
Ok, that's it for that.
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